Friday, January 18, 2008

17 weeks waiting...


I'd be lying if I said I hoped to be waiting for seventeen long weeks. I do, however, feel like there is a light at the end of this tunnel. Five families are traveling, as I type, to pick up their precious little ones. Another family got a referral early this week for a baby girl. Congratulations Harpolds!! The families that received referrals on 19 October got their court dates this week for 8 February.

Marshall talked to Duni, our Program director yesterday. She told him that we are 2nd in line for a baby boy and we figured out that we are 8th in line overall. Ya'll, I think we're getting close! One thing is a fact: we are 17 weeks closer to being parents than when we mailed that paper baby in August! Ha!

Thank you for all of your supportive comments on changing our referral request. We have learned over our marriage that there is no better place to be than smack dab in the middle of God's will. No matter how good it sounds to be somewhere else, I want no part of it. Even if I'm typing a Friday post that says "many many more weeks waiting", if that's God's will, that's where I want to be. It's not always easy, but He is ALWAYS right. My life would be miserable if I was flittering around out there on my own.

Thank you Lord for leading us. I pray my heart always lets You keep the lead. We both know it's works better that way!

I would like for our referral to come soon for obvious reasons. But I really want it to come before we move because our family here (the beauty of the military) has walked this road with us. We don't go anywhere on any given day that at least one, two, three or more people ask us about the adoption and what's going on. That means so much to us. One friend walks her dog every other night (hubby takes alternate nights) and she told me that each time she walks by our building, she prays for us and for the baby. That means the world to me. I'll miss this community. We'll make new friends, but they won't know us pre-cutest boy you're ever seen. This place will always be special for that reason. I imagine the next will be special for another reason, yet to be seen.

Cutest boy you've ever seen (I know that's a mouth full) is also loved all over this world. I had one of those days the other day. We all have them, not a huge deal. But the phone rang and I picked it up. It was a sweet friend that has moved back to the States, just checking in, seeing what was going on with the adoption. Made my day! Got an email today from a friend in England. "Where's the Week 17 post? I'm waiting on the post!" I do have a faithful reader!!

I must be feeling really loved today....really sappy!
Those of you that ordered tee shirts, they were mailed today. Wear those shirts proudly knowing that you are supporting adoption...something very close to God's heart.

Well, as always, we covet your prayers and thank you, every one of you, no matter where you are, for walking this road with us. It's a wild ride but SO worth it!








Wednesday, January 16, 2008

teeshirts on the way

If you ordered a teeshirt from us, they are packed up and ready for delivery/post office.
I will drop them at the post office tomorrow and if you're local I'll get them to you ASAP.
Thank you for your support!!

Saturday, January 12, 2008

A Call, But Not THE Call

We made a very important decision this week. So, we were the ones that made a phone call. We called our agency to let them know that we wanted to change our child request. After much prayer, we have decided that we will only adopt one child this time around.


We want to be the best parents we can be. Since we've never been in that role, it makes sense to focus on one child at a time. While we totally believe that if the Lord wanted us to adopt two children at one time, He would totally equip us for the job. And we did feel called to that and were obedient.


It will be a blessing to be able to bond and focus on this one little guy. We want to give our all to our son. For us, it would have been a disservice to the children to try to balance two very different stages of development for the first time. Do people do it all the time? Yes and I'm sure they do it well. For us this is right. I'm not too proud to admit that.


If there are regrets (which I don't think there will be) we would rather "regret" adopting only one instead of "regretting" adopting two and not doing a great job with them.


Maybe next time we'll bring home two. Yes, I'm already thinking about next time. I'm ready to work on the paperwork. This adoption thing rocks!


We have peace that surpasses all understanding. We are requesting a boy, birth to 18 months old.

Friday, January 11, 2008

16 weeks waiting

Here are some fun facts about the number 16:

Put the word "sweet" in front of it and you have a very special birthday.

Abraham Lincoln was our nations's 16th president.

Sixteen Candles is a classic 80's movie.Apollo 16

Yes folks, we've been waiting for 4 months. That can make a person a little loopy.
(So I've heard.)

Monday, January 7, 2008

Merry Christmas, Ethiopia!

It's Christmas again! Ethiopia uses the Julian calendar and celebrates Christmas on January 7. Using the Julian calendar also means that this year is their millennium...the year 2000 which began in September! Remember our Y2K craziness? Somehow I doubt that the Ethiopian population was hoarding bottled water and canned food. But I digress....

Merry Christmas Ethiopia!

I pray that you know the True meaning of Christmas, no matter what day it's celebrated...the birth of our Saviour, Jesus Christ.

Friday, January 4, 2008

15 weeks waiting

We are in a new year and praying for good news!
Teeshirts! They are in the mail and I will get them to you as soon as they arrive. Our wonderful teeshirt providers have their embassy date and travel plans are made. Go celebrate with them...they are neat.
We continue to press on and pray on! Thanks for checking in.
love, jill

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Hello 2008! Nice to meet you!

I can't believe 2007 is over! It will always be known as the year of the adoption (the paper chase part, at least). It was a wonderful year I'd say. I was so so hoping to have our referral before it ended but I don't want to look back with "with onlies"....cause I can get all mad and caught up in those if I don't watch it. God is in control (and I want Him to keep it-I keep trying to do His job-Lord forgive me) and we pray for good news early in 08.

Lord willing, our children will come home very soon.

My friend Heidi and her husband Kirk, who I met on our missions trip this summer, are in Addis, as I type, picking up their 3 newest children. I am so happy for them! You can follow along with their blog (see the hyperlink...another 2007 accomplishment..ha!)

I am looking forward to this new year and the blessings it will bring....two in particular.

Dear Precious Babies,
Oh how my heart longs for you both! We are getting so close it hurts! Mommy and Daddy are getting everything ready for you, so when we get the phone call, everything will be in place. We can't wait to see your little faces...and fingers and toes...and big brown eyes. It feels like we've waited a lifetime for you. In a way we have. God has been preparing us our whole lives to become YOUR parents. Even before I set eyes on your precious faces I know YOU ARE WORTH IT ALL. And then some.

Lord, I ask You to bless them and keep them; make Your face shine upon our babies and be gracious to them. Lord, turn Your face toward them and give them peace in their little hearts. I pray this in the Name above all names, Jesus Christ. Amen.
(from Numbers 6:24-26)